Coaching for Dyslexic Adults Who Are Tired of Feeling Not Good Enough
Arije Aike De Haas
Dyslexia Coach
Dyslexia May Have Started the Problem. These Patterns May Be Keeping It Going.
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Self-Doubt: You've achieved things, but you're still waiting to be found out.
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The Inner Critic: Your inner dialogue sometimes sounds like a former teacher's.
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Avoidance: The pressure to start and the fear of failing again arrive at exactly the same time.
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People-Pleasing: You'd rather agree than risk being seen as difficult or not good enough.
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Perfectionism: You spend enormous energy making sure no one sees you make a mistake.
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Wearing a Mask: You've gotten good at looking like you belong. You just don't feel it.
These patterns can affect your confidence, relationships, career, and overall quality of life. The good news is that they can be changed.
I'm dyslexic myself, so I know these patterns from the inside. I also have an MA in education studies and have spent the last six years creating content on dyslexia that has reached close to nine million people.
WHAT I OFFER…
You’ll develop a healthier relationship with yourself. We reinforce positive beliefs, challenge negative thinking, and explore how self-compassion actually works. Over time, this new way of relating to yourself becomes more natural.
You’ll gain a clearer understanding of what you need based on your values and boundaries. We work on more open communication, where the mask is slowly lifted. Over time, you connect more genuinely with the people around you.
You’ll understand what’s keeping you stuck, including the part of you that’s not sure it wants to move. We run small experiments and explore structured ways forward. Progress stops requiring everything to feel safe first.
Dyslexics like you
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Erik
I think one of the most appealing things for me was to learn from someone who has “skin in the game” by learning from someone who may have faced similar hindrances. And get information and resources beyond a diagnosis and see how to actually live with dyslexia.
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Simon D.
Simon D. Arije’s counsel significantly enriched my time abroad. His methods and personal insights were transformative, and I appreciated his flexible approach during my difficult moments. Thank you for everything!
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Amara H.
100% recommend Arije!
He showed me dyslexic struggles are a real thing and how they effect you and to work through them. Arije makes tough topics easy and simple, very great full!
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Michael T.
This video [Confidence Hacks For Dyslexics (Scientifically-Proven)] helped me so much I would recommend you contact Arije for a talk if this video helps you I've done this and I've already made some changes in my life.
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Sofia m.
Having 1 on 1 sessions with Arije has helped me understand myself more and work around things that I have struggled with. Also, I found it very useful to speak to someone who has dyslexia themselves and understands
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Anastasia P.
I reached out to Arije and had an incredibly educational session. I wholeheartedly recommend him if you are looking to understand your learning challenges better. Sometimes, teachers and parents may not fully grasp your situation, but Arije-Aike can make a significant difference in helping you navigate and overcome these obstacles.
Dyslexia doesn't just make reading hard. Over time, the struggle shapes how you see yourself. You start doubting yourself, avoiding mistakes, seeking approval, getting stuck in your head. These patterns affect your confidence, relationships, and career.
This is where coaching can help. We identify precisely what's keeping you stuck, where it came from, and practice new ways of responding.
You don't have to figure it out alone. Schedule a discovery call, and let's explore what it would take to move forward.
Working together is easy!
Book a free discovery session
In a 30-minute intake session, you and I will talk about what's holding you back and what you would like to change.
We work on the patterns, keeping you back
Through focused 1-on-1 sessions, we identify where your patterns come from, challenge the beliefs underneath them, and build new ways of responding.
You move through the world differently
Less held back by self-doubt, less dependent on others' approval, more able to take action on the things that matter to you.
